Being there for someone...

It is often said that for someone to be there for you... they do not have to literally be there.

You can't really wish a person who has passed away to come back and be there for you...
People have long distance relationship without they're spouse actually be there for each other...
But we can still somehow feel that those who has pass is still with us, supporting us, and being there for us at times we need them most...
Long distance relationship still sometime works, even though they're far from each other, the loyalty, trust, compassion and love avails...

having said all that...

don't you think its strange when the person that is literally by your side could seem so so far away?
You can see them, you can touch them, but somehow you don't feel them by your side?
If they don't really want to be here at the first place, why do they stay?
Is it because they can't be where they wanna be and just Have to accept being here instead?
Is it because they long for something more and just using you as a stepping stone?
Is it because you are the safety net so that when their high dream and hopes are not achieve, at lease they will still have somewhere to land?

Being with someone is not about getting just the good stuff...
being with someone is not all about You...
being with someone is about accepting each other good AND flaws...
being with someone is about Us... about You and Me...

So make a decision whether you want to be with that someone or not,
because being with one and hoping for more is just not fair
being with one and not being there is just cruel
Just be there... or don't...